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You know, I certainly felt that I was charting my own path, and that feels uncomfortable to say that. I'm much more well-read in fiction than nonfiction, so it's very possible that something similar exists. I call my book an investigative family memoir—I say it's a family memoir, because it really isn't my memoir, that doesn't feel accurate. I have no idea if that is an actual category of literature. I was certainly looking for models and hoping to find one, but I didn't particularly find something I could work with.

It got to the point where I actually had to stop reading memoirs completely. Everything I was reading was so good that I found it actually kind of paralyzed me. I love that, though. I think throwing out the memoirs was fine. It had to be done. I feel like without realizing what I had done, I had distilled my own emotional experience in the emotional arc of the book—and that was kind of comforting, though I certainly found plenty of things that weren't comforting, that made me feel worse. Like understanding how much pain my parents experienced and how little I was aware of and therefore failed to have compassion for.

Not as a child; that's an unfair expectation for a child. I was so ready to be done with my parents. When my mom died, I could be like, "Great. Now they're both gone. I don't have to worry about that. I don't have to wonder about how sad she is, or if she's going to hurt herself. And it was very, very comfortable for me to even say 20 years after my dad died, to still be like, "That dude was a dick.

My Dead Parents: A Memoir

It's great that he was gone from my life. I can't do that anymore. And this is, of course, a super-loaded moment, but I received the final copy of my book the other day, and burst into tears. Totally normal response, I think. Not because I was excited, but because I was kind of terrified that this thing actually existed, and was about to be released into the world.

But there was also a moment of looking at the picture of my parents on the cover, and thinking, "God, what happened to you both is really sad. And I didn't know it, but that protected me, and was its own kind of comfort, and that doesn't exist anymore. If I hadn't written the book, I would have been spared that pain.

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But it also feels really important to me, and I feel so lucky that I was given the opportunity to pursue this information. Were you eager to make the shift to memoir or was that a scary prospect? My fiction is pretty minimalist—I feel allergic to adjectives. And my fiction very specifically shuns details.

I never describe what someone looks like. You just can't do that in memoir, and I really felt that I had to push myself to get to the level of detail that I felt a reader wanted without sounding really hokey. You know, "The yellow of my mother's dress matched the daffodils. But I also would And I really didn't know how to make these work-a-day content sentences that needed to be there interesting.

What are you currently working on? I honestly still feel I'm recovering. My brain has not fully come back online. When I feel up to it, I have been revisiting short stories and kind of starting the precept of getting back to that. I always saw myself as more of a short story writer than a novelist, for no other reason than I've never had any idea for a novel that really has legs. But also, I have been quite gentle with myself.

For me, the book was so, so draining. I mean, it just really took everything I had. In Mary Karr's book about memoir, she talks about how she knows these writers who have all kind of lost their minds during the process. One of them finished her draft, realized she had pneumonia, and was checked into the hospital. I mean, I got shingles when I was on the second draft. To say that it took everything I had, and often more than I had, is an understatement. It makes perfect sense to me that it would be so draining to be immersed in fact, to be, like, making yourself sick every day and sleeping the sleep of the dead every night.

You revised your own history. How hard is that? I love that phrase, "revising my own history. Of course, with any writing project—I've only written a memoir, but as I've heard from friends who are novelists—it doesn't matter how much you love the idea, or how exciting the characters are to you.

The Long Goodbye: A Memoir

At some point, you wake up one day and you're like, "Oh, my god, this again? Because that's how long it takes. I got shingles, I lost the ability to feed myself. It happens to every writer at some point in the process. Settle in, folks, because this is one the longest first-half previews we've run in a long while. Putting this together is a labor of love, and while a huge crop of great spring books increases the labor, it also means there is more here for readers to love.

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His decision leads to the family having to flee the country and for them to have to make a decision: Her book comes out Tuesday. In an email interview from a hospice in Greensboro, N. I had to embrace the experience of having cancer, because that experience was part and parcel to my experience of my husband, my kids, my dearest friends. So I would say I really hope the book I wrote will make you feel much more joy than anything else. The book will make you feel joy. Riggs writes beautifully about her family, her love of literature and nature, of beach vacations and watching her son learn to ride a bike: The book will also make you feel sad.

Riggs, a former teacher and a poet, raised her family in Greensboro. Before becoming ill, she was, by her own account, a fairly typical young mother. This is what the terrible thing feels like. Riggs had a family history of breast cancer; her paternal grandfather died of the disease, along with several other members of her extended family.

But knowing this ominous genetic makeup offers little assurance or comfort when the diagnosis is made. And yet Riggs barely pauses to pity herself or her family. She trudges forward with the kind of strength and humor that make reading her account a bittersweet pleasure. Her wit is sharp and her observations lyrical: Riggs was surprised by the speed at which her disease progressed. And though readers know the end that this narrative is hurtling toward, still we feel the suspense, the hopes and the disappointments along the way.